Understand, your day-to-day habits, the way you respond. Whether you get angry or you are always cool. What for you should get angry. What for, for what you react politely. How nasty you can get when you get angry, or when you are polite, how you behave, your good bad, all these habits. Understand the word habits, are from father, he teaches you, that stays in your muscle memory. But how you cognize you, the inner most image you carry about you comes from mother, it stays in bio memory.
Understand, your behavior, responding patterns are from muscle memory, that stays in your muscle memory. That is from father, usually he educates you about the outer world. He contributes a lot to your outer image. He contributes a lot to how you behave with the world. How you relate with the world, what you should, and should not. Vidhi and Nisheda, do’s and don’ts – Vidhi and Nisheda, do’s and don’t s. That comes from your father that is why if you had a father who is instable, your relationship with outer world will be very instable.
That comes from your muscle memory, but the way you cognize as you. Your inner image come from your bio memory that stays in your bio memory. Completion with mother only can heal and complete your bio memory. Mother worship is the direct method. Understand, mother worship is the direct method, that is the word I will use. Most direct method to bring completion in your bio memory.
The attitude, the bhāva which forms the basis for the way you connect with life, with the world. The same attitude forms the basis for you to connect with yourself. Please understand, that is what we called karma in Vedic tradition.
If you judge, you will be judged. Why you know, because the basis with which you relate with the world, the same thing will be the basis with which you will relate with yourself. Don’t think when it comes to others, you can utter the strong words. When it comes to you, you can just be very cute and friendly, no!
The strong word which you utter towards others, will be the same strong words you will be uttering to yourself. Listen, the strong word which you utter towards others, will be the same strong words you will be uttering to yourself. The attitude you built towards others will be same. That will be same way you will be relating. That will be the basis for you to relate with yourself also. That is why I insist bring motherliness in all your relationships with others. You will bring so much of motherliness in your relationship with yourself. You will be able to heal you. You will be able to fill you. You will be able to complete within yourself. When you bring tremendous healing energy of mother in your day to day attitude with everything. Suddenly you will see you will be so cool with yourself.
I tell you the best thing can happen to a human being is ability to be cool with yourself; because you can’t be cool with yourself, so much of frustration with yourself. You go on abusing left and right anybody comes in front of your eyes. You said this fellow has cheated me, that fellow has cheated me, that fellow has cheated me, that fellow has exploited me. He has swindle me. He robbed me. Understand, your inability to be with yourself. Your inability to be cool with yourself is the frustration in your system. I tell you, understand, I really want to tell you, bring mother worship as part of your cognition, you will be so cool with yourself. You will be so complete with yourself. You will be so settled with yourself.
The fear, frustration because of frustration inside. How you possess objects or things or persons. Understand, when you are frustrated, suddenly, you will have so much of possessiveness to the property you have, or the car you have, or the bank balance you have or the persons in your life. you will just suffocate the objects and person who are part of your life. I tell you, let the car in the garage, not in you.
Let things be in their place. Your inner space should have only place for completion and joy, bliss. The moment you start cognizing frustration with yourself, the first thing you so, then I don’t have anything in the life, come on. Catch, like octopus, the wealth you have, persons who are in your life. when the grabbing starts, understand, it feeds into your frustration. It doesn’t heal your frustration.
I have never seen anybody healing their frustration by grabbing and possession. No, it doesn’t, it doesn’t. Understand the mother energy, completion with mother and connecting with life as mother. Bringing motherliness in your every relationship. Not only connecting with the source of life as mother. For whoever you are as source of life, letting them connect with you as mother. That is what I say, be a child to your source and be a mother to all the people whom you are a source. This brings so much of inner healing.
Understand, the most powerful ultimate asset you can have in your life is inner healing. It is not economically costly but it is psychologically costly. Psychological to live the life of inner healing, you may need to sacrifice a lot of stupid things.
You may need to remove many garbage. I think, oh god, this garbage were there with me for the last 25 years, how can I give upon them so easily. Mother worship will bring so much healing. So much healing.
Mother worship will allow so much completion. Try, try connecting with your god and guru as Mother, you will have so much inner healing, peace. Navratri is the time to connect with cosmos as mother.
Celebrate cosmic mother.