Actually, if you are unclutched, you can get into my circle. Being unclutched directly connects you to me. A tremendous energy starts flowing through you. What do I mean by unclutched? Being relaxed without clinging on to any person or thought or thing.
I always tell people that the person who feels only his pain and comes to me for healing is a devotee. The person who has complaints only about his own problems is a devotee. The person who feels my pain and takes the responsibility which I have taken as this whole mission, is a disciple!
The person who after taking my responsibility realizes, ‘How can an enlightened being have pain? Whatever I thought as a pain before taking this responsibility is not a pain, it is nithyananda – eternal bliss,’ then you become an insider!
So now you know how to become a disciple. Feel my responsibility, which is the responsibility of Existence. Then you will become a disciple.
source: Living Enlightenment