When you live close to Existence, without any opinion, seeing what is as it is and finding the blessings in it, you will carry heaven in you!

Everyone has his or her own set of worries! If I ask you what you worry about, you will tell me, ‘I don’t have a job, that’s my worry.’ Your neighbor will say, ‘My job is my main worry!’ Someone else will say, ‘My children are my worry.’ Another person will say, ‘I don’t have children, that’s my worry!’ One person’s dream is another person’s worry! You will not find any logic in it at all.

What is meant by ‘worry’? Worry arises whenever things are not happening as you want them to happen. It is the discrepancy between your expectations and reality. For example, you feel your son should stay at home with you, whereas he feels he should be by himself, away from you. You feel your salary should be a few thousand dollars more. Your boss feels otherwise. You want to finish your project by a certain time. But things are happening too slowly and it seems an impossible task. These are all causes for worry. What you want and expect does not match what others want and expect.

You continuously expect things to happen in a certain way. Whether it is as big as your career or as small as what time your husband should come home for a meal, you continuously impose your will upon what is happening and worry about it.

Worry takes root from your own thoughts or words. There are two things that continuously happen in you. The first is dialogue, and the second is monologue or what I call is ‘inner chatter’.  You either talk to people outside or you continuously chatter within you. In any case, words and thoughts are the ‘building blocks’ that make up worry. When you speak to others, what you say is strictly governed by societal rules. You automatically don’t use prohibited or ‘politically incorrect’ words. But what you say inside yourself, no one except you knows. The thoughts that you generate inside constitute your real worries. Continue reading →

True Love!

In real life, we always look to express our love towards others in some tangible way. Only if love is demonstrated in tangible form, it is considered to be love nowadays. True love is like a communion. It is a resonance between two beings. It can be felt without any expression. It doesn’t need communication because it is already happening as a communion. If you really love a person, then your very body language will show it. It will be too much to express in words. You will feel that any words are inadequate and will only bring down the love that you feel. But if you are using words, then somewhere the love has not really happened. When you have to speak to express love, then somewhere there is a lie in it! You are using the words just to decorate the lie.

Real love liberates because it doesn’t compel you to express it all the time. It just is. Real love also gives you the freedom to freely express what you want to express. You can easily express anything like disapproval or anger and it will not be mistaken for reduced love. Not only that, with real love, there will be no domination or power play in relationships. Each person will be like a beautiful flower that has blossomed to radiate its unique fragrance, that’s all. With real love, there will be no fear or insecurity either.

In normal love, physical distance between two people causes a lot of insecurity and a lack of trust. Real love doesn’t look for utility. It operates on sheer trust and is also beyond space and time. These days I see people gifting each other with so many things to show their love. Gifting has become an expression of love. If the gifting happens as causeless overflowing, it is okay. We are totally relaxed anywhere in the world. Continue reading →

If we turn our attention towards the experience of love itself, we will be liberating the object and we too will be liberated from the object!

Hatred and love are opposite sides of the same coin as long as love is conditional. Love can flip into hatred the moment we feel that our expectations are threatened. In love of this type, it remains love only as long as the conditions remain as expected. The moment the conditions change, the love also changes.

Often what we believe as love is actually related to time and space. So long as the distance between lovers is large and the time of contact is minimal, they feel love towards each other. However, once they get closer and spend more time together, they feel that they are not so much in love after all! That is why they say ‘familiarity breeds contempt’. Familiarity can also convert love into hatred. To transcend both love and hatred, we first need to drop expectations. Expectation is the first enemy of love. We all go through several stages of relationships in our lifetime. If you observe very closely, whichever stage we are in, when we ask for love we are actually asking only for the other person’s attention. When we say a person doesn’t love us, we actually mean that the other person doesn’t give us enough attention. The basic need for any human being is attention from others. The attention-need, along with our dependency on others for survival, is what we experience as love.

The dependency on others might be psychological, physical or spiritual. For example, when you expect someone to lend you a shoulder to cry on, you are dependent upon that person psychologically. When you expect someone to provide you with money or fulfill your bodily pleasures, you are dependent upon them physically. In whatever way people may fulfill this dependency, what it boils down to is the attention that they give us! The whole idea of love is nothing but getting the attention of the other in some way. Continue reading →

You must have at least one relationship in your life that exists for no reason!

Many people confuse lust with love. This is one of the greatest tragedies. The person who thinks lust is love remains confined to the physical plane. He never rises higher than that. He has no idea that there is a higher plane. He remains in the basement of his house. Sex is the basement. It is not the place to live in. You can use it for other purposes, but it can’t be your home. Your home is above it.

You must have at least one relationship in your life that exists for no reason. The first thing we need to understand is that relationships can happen causelessly, without any reason. Only then will we understand that the experience of love is much more important than the object of love. You must have at least one relationship in your life that exists for no reason. If you don’t have such a relationship, be very clear, even if you have money, deep down you are still poor. From today onwards start relating with someone for no reason. There should be no monetary or physical benefit from the relationship. If you experience causeless love once, after that, if the money is shared, if the body is shared, it is okay. The quality is totally different. I am not against money or against marriage. I am not against the physical relationship, but if it becomes the center of your life, you are missing something very important. That is what I want to convey here. You miss a major dimension or energy center of your being. Continue reading →

Only because people themselves have not experienced love, do they give respect as the rule of acceptable behavior!

The big problem today is that most people don’t love themselves. Society never teaches that it is possible to love ourselves. Understand that unless you love yourself, you cannot possibly love another person. Only when you lose yourself to yourself can you lose yourself to others. We are taught that we can only love even ourselves if we have a reason. If we perform well, we love ourselves. If we fail, we hate ourselves. We apply the same logic to others. We love them only because of something, never without a cause, without a reason. When you don’t love yourself, you become cynical and negative towards life.

Existence is not a thing. It is a living energy being. Every single tree, every single stalk of a plant responds to your love and hate, your every thought. Cleve Backster, a polygraph expert, has conducted several experiments to examine the response of plants to human emotions and thoughts. He discovered that plants would respond to human thought in a way similar to how a human being would respond. A simple thought by a person about burning the leaves of the plant would register erratic movement in the polygraph recording of the plant! Backster* called this response ‘Primary Perception’ – the ability of plant, animal and human cells to perceive and respond to any thought.

On one occasion, Backster* recorded graphs that registered a flat line that suggested the plants were in a state of shock. He asked the owner of the plant if she had done anything to hurt the plants. The lady told him, ‘I roasted a few of its leaves to get their dry weight!’

When you start loving Existence, it begins responding to you in beautiful ways. You start rising above all of the differences around you. Everything is part of one Whole. And love is the only thing that can make you realize this truth.

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Love is a basic necessity of Life!

Whenever we look at something, the first thing we do is to calculate what we can get from it. It can be a person or an object, that doesn’t matter. Our thoughts start functioning either through fear or through greed to calculate what there is in the situation for us. Our attention is centered on that object or person. It is possible to turn our attention towards our own inner space and ask, ‘What can I contribute?’, ‘What can I add?’, ‘How can I enrich others?’ If the process is only to ask, ‘What can I get out of it?’ then it is driven by lust. If the process asks, ‘How can I enrich it?’ it is driven by love! Lust is an energy that demands. Love is an energy that gives.

Love is an intense experience in one’s inner space. Many of us think love is a choice. We think experience and expression of love is a choice. We think that if we want to, we can handle love; otherwise we can let it go. No! It is not a choice as we think. It is a basic necessity of life.
When I say life, I don’t mean just breathing and staying alive. I mean being alive at the innermost being level, as a live Consciousness. If you can express love, if you can experience love, that is the only way of being alive as a Consciousness. If you don’t experience and express love, you may inhale and exhale, but you can’t say you are a live being. There are so many animals, plants and other things that breathe day in and day out. You will continue to exist like them, that’s all. Continue reading →

Power manifesting capabilities, power manifesting abilities comes from the space and understand You are that!

  • Length breadth depth is not He, he is the space. Logic, heart and cognition is not he, he is the space.
  • This 3 does not really constitute a person. And length, breadth, depth, size/shape doesn’t consitute a person. The space constitues a person. The Space you carry decides who you are!
  • The space you carry its smell, its flavor comes out of you like energy! Flavor of your space is what i call Shakti! The explosion happening in your inner space is Shakti.
  • Good news for you: The moment you manifest even one Shakti I have already entered into your inner space.
  • All power manifestation has to start from Space not from Depth.
  • Time is non-existent power layer. It is only when Space collides with length, breadth, depth the dust created is time.
  • Space is a energy. Length, Breadth, Depth is a mass. When these 2 collides the dust/the atmosphere generated is a time. If length,breadth,depth moves away from the space, the time will not have its existence. It will just settle down.
  • Even if you manifest one power once, I have drilled you already upto your space.
  • Inner space Shakti cannot dry out because it is not drilling to, it is drilled through your inner space to my inner space.
  • One power manifestation even once happening without any confusion, cheating, I already drilled through your inner space. Because only from the space, power manifestation can start.
    More and more power manifestation, the affect of time will not effect you.
  • Affect of time on your depth is boredom, on your length is tiredness, on your breadth is depression.
  • Affect of tiredness will not effect you if you do more and more power manifestation.
  • Understand, Listen carefully, nothing, nothing can tire you, depress you, bore you.
  • Boredom is 100 times worse than depression. Depression can be handled by reasoning. Boredom not.
  • Good news I have for you, even if you have manifested one power once. Initiation has happened, start manifesting more and more and more. More and more and more power manifestation, more and more of consciousness.
  • Purpose of human existence is manifesting higher frequency of consciousness, everything else is chunk of junk.
  • I tell you, do not trust, do not rely your abilities of length, breadth, depth for ur existence. Rely on your capacities of your space for your existence. That is what is Sannyas. Anthing you want only through your space abilities.
  • Plan your lifestyle, your death should not be a cultural shock for you.
  • Value yourself only based on your space capabilities, capacities of your space, manifestation of your space, then death will not be a cultural shock. It will be changing from one room to another. From Space what you can manifest celebrate based on that.
  • Your whole child idea boundaries, ownership, how silly they look when you grow up, sameway when you get matured all the possesion, ownership identity you built based on length, breadth, depth abilities will look silly.
  • Kailashavasi celebrates the manifestations of his space.
  • Manifestations of length, breadth, depth are so superficial, they are not worthy, they are not all worthy. Manifestations of space. Celebrate your capability based on your power manifesting abilities and space.

When You Manifest Your Life as You Want, Cosmos Celebrates You!

You are Ultimate because of your ability to Manifest not what you manifest!

Listen, to this three statements which I am going to make; that is the essence of whole webinar what I wanted to convey. I should not say that is the essence of Shuddhadvaitam. I think I will not be wrong, if I make a statement, these three statements are the essence of the whole Sanatana Hindu Dharma. This three statements, are fundamentals, so it will not be new for you. I just need to remind you and expand this three statements to you.

First and foremost you are Ultimate, even as you are now. Listen. Even if you think you are manifesting bondage, suffering, suffocation, ill health, all the wrong things. Even if you think you are manifesting all the wrong things, suffocating things, constraining things, how can you be Ultimate.Please understand. You are Ultimate even when you think you are under bondage as of now.

Listen carefully.

This first statement.

Even if you think you are manifesting all the wrong things, poverty, lack of resources, lack joy, lack of good relationships, lack of love, lack of completion, lack of health, whatever, whatever you may complain. Even if you think you are manifesting this, how can you be Ultimate? Listen to the statement. All this You are manifesting, so You can manifest what You want.

First and foremost basic truth. I am not playing with words. Listen. I am not playing with words.

Actually, I was born, I assumed body and brought Myself up in a village atmosphere, just to tell you guys a statement—I am not trained to play with words. Of course, I am trained to play with worlds, but not with words. I am not trained to play with words.

Let me be very straight. The statements I am making are the absolute truth. If you understand this first statement, all the discussion goes on in Vishisthadvaita, Dvaita,  Advaita, and Shuddhadvaita in all the philosophies of Hinduism, Shat-darshana, the concept of Maya, does it exist eternally, or it comes and goes; Or it never exist, all this discussion ends with this one statement— even while you are under the Maya, you are Ultimate because you manifest it.

Manifested can never be more powerful than the manifestor.

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