- No question of powerlessness.
- Love, Compassion, Non-violence all that will start happening only in right context.
- Which part of you either you are too attached or don’t like i.e. resist, you will see the same again and again in the mirror.
Resistance forms the basic blockage which creates stress. That is the reason for the cholesterol. The cholesterol which comes due to stress, starts getting built in your life and I tell you, I can give this as a technique for all the big-belly. No, really, all the people who are little big-bodied, who have too much cholesterol, I give this one technique:
Stop resisting !
I am not teaching acceptance. Stop resisting. Suddenly, the stress level in you will drastically drop because you need to know, the stress in you, the stress built in you is not because of your life, but because trying to finalize the whole flow of life sitting in one room. It is like, before even you start living, you try to have the whole picture of your life. When you stop resisting, suddenly your whole internal thinking will be free from stress and the cholesterol will melt as if it is put in the fire, like a ghee melts when it is poured in the lamp or the Homa.
Many time when you try to apply the spiritual truths after the wrong cognition, the whole joy of the life goes away in the struggles. When you resist life with “This is not how it should be. Why is he/she like this? Or why is this incident like this? Why is this place like this? He or she should not be this way. This place should not be this way. This incident should not be this way. Life should not have been this way.” Now you are stuck with internal enemy called resisting your own life. Like you are on the wrong side of life now. Life becomes now the Prosecution. Don’t make life Prosecution.
If, Life stands by your side, that is what is “Krishna standing by you”, Krishna is being with you. Even if you have all the infrastructure, if Krishna is not with you, you lost the game. Even if you don’t have any infrastructure, just if Krishna is standing with you, you won the game. Understand, when you deal life with non-resistance, life is standing by you, Krishna is standing by you and no one can win you. The opposite fellows may have all the infrastructure, they may be Duryodhana and Dusshasana, but I tell you, because life is standing by you, you will only win the game.
Life is more intelligent, more powerful than any infrastructure possible, because every infrastructure is built by life.
When you resist others, resist anything in your life, your real enemy is sitting inside you, because when you are stuck with the internal enemy called your resisting thoughts, feelings and cognition inside you, and not the external enemy or the other person. Because you are broken to pieces now, the enemy easily wins. If you’re integrated,the enemy cannot win. You are now stuck between two enemies, the internal and external. That is why you suffer and lose.
I tell you, let you not have internal enemy. I will give you assurance you will win the external enemy. A person who does not have internal violence will win any war he takes up. A person who has internal vengeance or violence will lose all the wars he takes up. If you want to win any war, somehow agitate your enemy and see to it he has, he carries vengeance towards you; you won the game. Normally, you think, ‘If my enemy has a vengeance, how can I win?’ You don’t know. I tell you, you don’t know the Cosmic Law. If he is in that space be very clear you won the game. Because vengeance, anger, resistance will break your enemy into pieces. So, when the enemy is broken to pieces, know very clearly you have won the game. You don’t need to do anything, he himself will destroy himself.
In any game of the life, if you want to win the game, win the life, just drop violence from inside you. Do not have violence. Zero violence, zero resistance. I tell you, what I am talking is not just spiritual truth, it is strategy planning to wage your life, to wage war, to wage war, any war in your life. If you are waging war for health, if you are waging war for wealth, if you are waging war for peace, if you are waging war for enlightenment, if you are waging war for anything in your life, zero violence, zero resistance, this is the strategy planning I am telling you. I won the game just with this strategy. Continue reading →
I wanted to share a very important truth with you all. I was meditating, contemplating on what is the one important truth I need to share with people, really, really, really helping them to enrich themselves and others. Kaalabhairava has revealed that this one truth is enough; that is, “you don’t need to accept, but stop resisting”! Please understand, you don’t need to accept, but stop resisting. You may or may not accept, but stop resisting. Whatever you resist in your life, the memory of resistance stops your Kundalini awakening.
Kaalabhairava revealed today early morning very beautifully to me! Usually, that early morning time is the downloading time for me, to teach. Every day satsangh, whatever subject I’m talking, it happens in that early morning downloading! And thanks to this hand, early morning it doesn’t allow me to sleep. It wakes me up. No pain, but it asks for my attention. And I was just sitting, I had only one question in my space, contemplating: What is it that can make human-beings enrich themselves and others? Kaalabhairava revealed that this is the foremost truth! He said this should be taught with more importance, even prior to Integrity, Authenticity! I was shocked! ‘Oh, God!’
For example, if you are resisting, if you are constantly afraid of a disease…..I am not saying accept, like ‘Alright, if that disease comes, what can be done?’ No! Then you will trigger the fear and you will trigger another pattern: ‘If I am constantly meditating on this disease, it may come on me!’ You may trigger other complications. I am not saying accept; all I am saying is decide not to resist. Decide, whenever the fear of that disease comes, you are not going to resist.
Please listen! If you are afraid of poverty, I am not saying accept poverty. No! Accepting poverty is like going back in your life. No! I am not saying that! All I am trying to tell you is, don’t resist poverty. Whenever the thought of poverty happens in you, do not resist.
I tell you, in India, these engineers, Public Works Department people who plan for roads, bridges, these fellows never visit the site. Sitting in the office in the AC, they see the map and finalize the plan, freeze it and approve it. Only the people who have to work on the ground, when they go there, they find suddenly a big hole in the place where the road has to happen. Now, because of that big hole, you cannot build a road, you have to build only a bridge! Otherwise, where they have a bridge, you will see a beautiful flat land. You don’t need to build a bridge there, you need a road! On the center of the road, some important, monumental protected, archaeological monument temple will be standing! And you know one funny thing, these fellows had made a road exactly in the middle of our banyan tree! There is a law in this country, if any tree is more than hundred years old, you can’t touch it. Then we had to write to them, made them understand, made somebody come here and see, and then they stopped. Our tree was saved. No, it really happened, I think in 2006!
Please understand this example: with this example, I wanted you to understand a very important truth. How these guys don’t go to the spot and decide the details, same way how they sit inside the office itself in the air-condition and finish all the decisions from the beginning to the end, they already see that they have a road and cars and other vehicles are moving without even seeing the ground. You have the same pattern of without entering into life trying to have a sketch of a complete life, which is arrogance! Please understand, I am defining arrogance. Continue reading →
When you understand that people cannot be changed, you are matured in relationships. When you understand that the whole world cannot be changed, you become mature for enlightenment. Maturity is nothing but acceptance in your bio-memory level. Completion again and again, will make you understand one thing in your bio-memory level: Acceptance is your life. Really! When I say acceptance, not acceptance out of powerlessness; just no resistance! When I understood I can’t change people, I got mystical power to transform people! Trying to change others is “Violence”. Trying to transform others is “Enriching”.
Change is different, Enriching is different. In Enriching, you are not focused on changing his character as you want for your benefits.
You are focused on making him/her complete.
Your focus is totally different. When you are Enriching, resistance, judgment, attachment, all three will drop in you. When you are trying to change, you will be so violent!
It is not that Enriching will be without passion.
(In a mild tone) if you want to do then do, otherwise it’s ok. ‘Every morning, you do little Yoga and meditation, live Integrity and Authenticity, it is good for you.
Enriching will have tremendous passion.
‘COME ON! LIVE INTEGRITY! LIVE AUTHENTICITY!’
It will have passion, but not violence.
Change: when you try to change, there will be lot of violence.