Why you should be always blissful, why you should be with and in Nithyaananda ?

Today the important truth I wanted to share with all of you, especially preparing all of you for Sadashivoham2016. The science of bliss, understand, just yesterday, I was sharing with few of My Aadhenavasis. I have made few people as Chief Integrity Officer – CIO. I was revealing some of the important truths about the Integrity. Listen. Actually, if somebody has eyes, do you need to tell them ‘Hey, 3 feet pit is there on the right side of the road. 4 feet stone is sitting in the left side of the road. And outside the gate fire is burning on the street, somebody has put the Tyre and they’re burning, so take left turn. Then after some time, one big cobra is lying down so go right side.’ No. If somebody has eyes, they will manage all this. You don’t need to tell everything.

Understand, Integrity also is a simple vision of Reality. Why it looks so complicated you know? Your brain gets covered with the thin subtle layer of pitta, which puts you in certain delusion, constantly makes you believe your assumptions, assumed fears, as a part of your Reality. Listen. Listen to this word carefully. If you have used the virtual reality equipment, you can understand. First when you put it, it looks like externally something has been put. After a half hour or one hour you forget something is on you and you just become one with it. Same way, when your brain is covered by a thin, very subtle layer of pitta, certain amount of sadness and withdrawal, frustration, powerlessness, lower frequency of existence, becomes your functioning style. Only there, because you feel so powerless, you think let me do anything and manage the situation.

It is like your house is on fire, your dad is in the office, he comes to know and he screams at you through the phone, ‘Where is the house key, first take it.’ And you receive that instruction; you run and search all around and just get the house key and come back and stand outside and let the house burn!!! And then you come and tell me, ‘No you told me where is the house key and I’m having it’. Read More

One of the important qualities to say “YES” to life is Tremendous Patience! “Yes”. “Yes”. “Yes”. Every time “Yes”. After every time, “YES”!

असुर्या नाम ते लोका अन्धेन तमसाऽऽवृताः । ताँस्ते प्रेत्याभिगच्छन्ति ये के चात्महनो जनाः ॥

Asurya naama they lokaa andhena thamasaavruthaah | Thaamsthey prethyabhigachchanthi ye ke chaathmahano janaah ||

The translation: ‘The various abodes of the Asuras, the lower level existence, are in the form of inferior or lower grade worlds, which are like hells coerced by darkness, representing all the negative qualities, collectively called “thamas”. Those who literally kill the Athma become ghosts who inhabit such horrible abodes, and, this, they continue to do repeatedly.’

Listen! People who say “YES” to life, what will happen to them was described in the last verses. Now, people who say “NO” to life, what will happen to them is getting described.

Listen! Whenever you entertain “NO” to life, first, always, “NO” is entertained as frustration. Then it evolves as anger, violence, self-doubt, self-hatred, self-denial; all this is various expressions. But, it starts as frustration. So, I tell you, one of the important qualities to say “YES” to life is tremendous patience. Listen! Tremendous patience! YES! YES! YES! Every time YES! After every time, YES!

Listen! Every time, when, what you want does not happen, don’t say “NO”; end in “YES”. I am not saying accept. No!

I will give you an example: Read More

Completion is not…

Completion is not apologizing.
Completion is not complaining.
Completion is not begging.
Completion is not becoming weak.
Completion is not tolerating atrocities others do.
Completion is not putting up with all stupidity of others.
Completion is not putting up with others’ powerlessness.
Completion is not letting others do whatever the want.
Completion is not being irresponsible.
Completion is not withdrawing.
Completion is not escaping.
Completion is not missing the Life.

Completion is you feeling powerful, friendly, fulfilling.
Completion is feeling complete with the other person as per the other persons’ place and space.
Completion is seeing reality in you and awakening reality in others.

People ask, ‘Commitment vs Responsibility in a relationship, Swamiji, please define?’

Please understand, if you constantly think from incompletion, powerlessness, and can constantly be thinking what all can go wrong, and trying to control only that, stop only that “what all can go wrong”, that is “Commitment”. “Responsibility” means, thinking from the powerful space “what all can go right”, and making that happen, working for that. “Responsibility” is working for what all can go right. “Commitment” is stopping, working to stop what all can go wrong. Commitment is “crisis management mood”, Responsibility is “creation mood”.

In a relationship, “Responsibility” means, constantly raising it to the next, next, next levels of Completion; “Commitment” means, trying to keep the plastic rose look like the real rose by spraying the perfumes. I tell you, “Commitment” is more like dragging; “Responsibility” is more like flowering. “Responsibility” means, feeling the present and future reality of both beings as one! “Commitment” means, somehow do actions, words, to keep it alive, keep going. There is a big difference between “Commitment” and “Responsible”.

What makes it so difficult to move on from previous relationships? My past is affecting my ability to love. How can I clear the past and rewrite the relationship the way I want?

Listen! Listen! You need to know, anything which brings you powerlessness, difficulty, you never had that systematically! Please understand, if you had wealth and lost it, you had relationship and lost it, if you had health and lost it, you have not systematically built it; it has happened to you as accident. Anything you consciously build, anything you consciously build, stays with you and makes you more and more powerful. If you feel your earlier relationships are failure, you need to know you did not build that consciously; it happened as an accident. May be just because you were a young girl or young man, relationships would have happened, not because you wanted to enter into it consciously with a purpose, with a clear goal in life.

So, understand, the word “relationship” should not be used if it has happened as an accident. So, whenever some relationship breaks, fails, remember to name that as an “accidental” relationship, so that it is easy for you to get out of it, complete with it, you can clear the past, and at least next time you can be very sure about what you should be doing and should not be doing. The earlier relationships, why it worked and why it failed, the right lessons are learnt, the right context is set for you to rewrite the relationship, the new relationship, the way you wanted, the way you want to live. So, understand, you can clear the past and rewrite the relationship the way you want, the way you want it to be by understanding the right reasons why it worked and why it failed. So, whatever is the reason why it failed, you need to complete with it, get rid of those patterns to make the relationship work in a right way.

Who does not manipulate Dharma in his thinking, there is no blind spot in his thinking. If he knows right, he does it; if he does not know, he knows it is not required. If he does not get up in the morning and come for Yoga, he knows it is not required. If he knows it is required, he is not inefficient, or there is no impossibility.” That is what I call no blind spot, no manipulation of the principle.

Living Advaitha VII

…continued from Living Advaitha VI

Please understand, when you have described your identity, when you describe consciously how you want to be and ask your teamily to support you, give you the input, what all the incompletions you may have to complete, and after the teamily gives the input if you also work with it and complete all the incompletions you are carrying.

Please understand, I am giving you some of the examples so that you can be very practical and very precise.  Please listen, I will give you some of the most practical hints. See, for example, if you want always people should perceive you as a loving, caring, joyful being, the first thing you need to complete is, you may be having a deep non-trusting attitude.  Listen!  In the heart if you carry the non-trusting attitude, naturally, neither you will be comfortable with people, nor people will be comfortable with you.  So, first thing you need to do is completing with the non-trusting attitude and building up the ability to trust.  May be, if you tell your whole teamily that this is where you need to do Completion, your whole teamily will be constantly reminding you.

Teamily is nothing but the embodiment of Guru surrounding you from all corners.  Listen!  Teamily is nothing but embodiment of Guru surrounding you from all corners, constantly reminding you. 

If you always want to be perceived as a loving, caring, blissful being, you have a deep incompletion about trusting others, if you tell this to everyone, share this with your whole teamily, your whole teamily will be constantly helping you to separate and see your insecurity and the real, actual threat possibility.  Many times, if the threat possibility is even very small, because of your insecurity you cannot trust, your teamily can constantly help you to separate these two.  And, I tell you, only when you separate these two, you make a successful right strategy even for your security.  When you are constantly agitated about the cockroach, you allow the scorpion in your bed!  Because, constantly, you are frightened about the cockroach, you are too busy in protecting you from the cockroach, you allow the cobra and scorpion in your bed!  They both are sitting there to receive you!  When you separate the real possibility of threat and your incompletion, insecurity superimposed, these two separate, listen, listen, only then, only then even the security will be better.  The whole teamily will help you, support you, constantly remind you.  That is why the teamily.  But, I am very clear, I don’t want anybody other than your teamily to know your incompletions.  An onlooker or a person on the street can exploit you constantly.  I don’t want that.  The teamily should be a loving space for you to grow. Like how you help youraasandhari to grow.

I tell you, some of the best moments of my life was when I was serving Arunagiri Yogishwara, Raghupathi Yogi, and a great sadhu in Ramakrishna Mission, Swami Gautamananda.  Of course, Swami Gautamananda will never even imagine I will still be carrying so much of love and reverence and respect for him in my heart, but, the time I served him, I got an insider’s view of a powerful sadhu’s life.  Understand, he was not an ordinary sannyasi of the Ramakrishna Order; he was one of the Trustees.  Ramakrishna Mission has only eleven Trustees, and he was one, and a senior Trustee.  I think he now even gives initiation.  In Ramakrishna Mission, only one or two people are allowed to give initiation in the whole Order.  He is one of the two-three who give initiation, Mantra Deeksha.  So, such a top-level sadhu.  When I had the possibility to see his life very closely….Wow!  I tell you, the amount of integrity and purity with the whole day spent, the amount of integrity and purity used even to take administrative decisions of the organization, not just the personal decisions, even the administrative decisions of the organization!  I tell you, as long as we remain pure, we retain our integrity even in our administrative decisions, we will continue to exist. Read More

  • Completion is decision to get rid of this pattern, complete with it and not to entertain it consciously again.
  • Life is made up of Consciousness the moment you are initiated into Intra-analyzing.
  • Whatever may come from outside I will not allow powerlessness inside. Never allow powerlessness inside you, always be powerful.
  • Completion and Powerfulness you carry about what you are makes you graceful.
  • Liberation is poking holes in the logic which you built to prove inevitability of your powerlessness.
  • Unholiness of resistance and powerlessness => When you resist it becomes powerlessness, when you become powerless you resist more.
  • No question of powerlessness.
  • Love, Compassion, Non-violence all that will start happening only in right context.
  • Which part of you either you are too attached or don’t like i.e. resist, you will see the same again and again in the mirror. 
  • If you don’t care about Life, Life will not care about you.
  • Possibility is the flavor of Advaitha. Friendliness is the smell of Advaitha.
  • If you fall into powerlessness, you will be beaten more. Destruction is the gift to anybody, for anybody who falls into powerlessness by Kalabhairava. This is Advaitha. 
  • Tyaagenaika amrutattva manasuhu; Just only by the sacrifice immortality is attained.
  • The ultimate strategy planning for life is go on causing others reality with joy and depth.
  • Decide to cause others reality, suddenly you will see you will have depth in your joy, depth in your sincerity. Feeling of powerlessness in your life will start melting down.