Month: August 2014
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All of you, understand, your aggression, agitation, that is responsible for the other person’s aggression or agitation. If you master your eyes never to overflow – means, tears not to come out – you can master and keep the ocean without overflowing! Please listen! If you can master your eyes never to overflow, you can…
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न जायते म्रियते वा कदाचित् ज्ञायं भूत्वा भविता वा न भूयः | अजो नित्यः शाश्वतोऽयं पुराणो न हन्यते हन्यमाने शरीरे || Na jaayathey mriyathey vaa kadhaachith Jnaayam bhoothvaa bhavithaa vaa na bhooyaha | Ajo nithyaha shaashvathoyam puraano Na hanyathey hanyamaaney shareerey || “It is not born, nor does it die; It is not that having…
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Completion is not…
Completion is not apologizing. Completion is not complaining. Completion is not begging. Completion is not becoming weak. Completion is not tolerating atrocities others do. Completion is not putting up with all stupidity of others. Completion is not putting up with others’ powerlessness. Completion is not letting others do whatever the want. Completion is not being…
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Technique to flower in your relationships
Now I wanted to give you the meditation process to experientially flower in true love, in relationships. The first step: Look in and pen down – • What you feel about you when you are with that person with whom you are in love, • What you feel about you when you are not with…
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“Loneliness” and “Aloneness”
Just now I used both words in the same meaning. But in order to define both words deeply, in Sanskrit we have a word – “Kaivalya”; means, “aloneness”. “Loneliness” is, you want to have somebody to escape from you and your incompletions; that is “loneliness”. Even if you have the other person or not, you…
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“Trust” vs “False Hopes”
Understand, again, “Trust” is from the powerful space with the clarity of what you are. Only with the clarity of what you are, “Trust” happens. “False Hopes” is you not trying to understand what you are, you not trying to understand what the other person is, is “False Hopes”. Understand, when you understand who you…
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People ask me to define “trying to improve others” vs “accepting the others as they are”.
Please understand, both are wrong! Trying to improve the other, means, constant resistance. Accepting the others as they are, means, non-caring laziness. Both are wrong! Be very clear, the other person is not one! Look into that person. All the Completion space that person carries, accept it as it is. Imbibe, imbibe so much that…
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People ask, ‘Commitment vs Responsibility in a relationship, Swamiji, please define?’
Please understand, if you constantly think from incompletion, powerlessness, and can constantly be thinking what all can go wrong, and trying to control only that, stop only that “what all can go wrong”, that is “Commitment”. “Responsibility” means, thinking from the powerful space “what all can go right”, and making that happen, working for that.…
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